B”H
Dear Parents,
Caring and Empathy
Welcome Baby Dolls! This week seven new baby dolls were welcomed into the Yellow Room. The Yellow Room has adopted a new Conscious Discipline program, Baby Doll Circle Time, which encourages caring and empathy (see CJP Facebook Group). Each dad or mom (aka Yellow Room Friend) gave their baby doll a bracha (blessing).
Parsha
In this week’s Parsha the Yellow Room Friends learned how Yaakov gave brachot (blessings) to his 12 sons at the end of his very long life.
Thank you, Yellow Room Parents, for sending in your personal bracha (blessing) for your child. They were read to each child and will be put into a binder for the children to look at any time.
Yaakov also gave a bracha to his grandsons, Yosef’s sons, Menashe and Efraim. But Yaakov did a very strange thing: instead of putting his right hand on the elder grandson Menashe’s head, he crossed his hands and put his right hand on Efraim, the younger grandson’s head, and his left hand on Menashe, the older grandson’s head. This was because Yaakov knew that in the future a descendant would be born from Efraim who would lead the Jewish People into Eretz Yisrael (Israel): Yehoshua.
Song:
(TTTO: If You’re Happy and You Know It)
When Yaakov blessed Yosef’s sons,
He crossed his hands.
When Yaakov blessed Yosef’s sons,
He crossed his hands.
He put his right hand on Efraim
And his left hand on Menashe.
Then he blessed Yosef’ sons,
He crossed his hands.
The bracha Yaakov gave his grandsons is often recited by Jewish children before sleep:
Song:
This Tefilah (prayer) from Yaakov,
at night is said:
By all Jewish children, before going to bed
To Ephraim and Menasheh, this bracha, Yaakov gave
"May the malach (angel) watch over you, for me he did save
In the name of my fathers, Avrohom and Yitzchok too
May Hashem’s bracha, forever be with you
Hamalach hagoel osi mikol ra
Y’vorech es han’orim, vikorei bahem sh’mee
V’sheim avosai, Avrohom v’Yitzchok
V’yidgu larov b’kerev haaretz
Yaakov gave each of his 12 sons a different bracha because each son is different and has specific needs. The Yellow Room discussed how each child is different. The Kindergarten Friends heard the brachos from the parents being read for each child. Each child received a different bracha because each person is different and unique.
Shabbat Shalom!
Morah Perline
Strawberry Shortcake!
The children in the Yellow Room are bustling with excitement as they prepare for shopping and making strawberry shortcake. As the children continue to play shopping and family, create strawberry shortcakes, play cook for family, create homes and kitchens from materials they build on foundational skills for continued education and adult life.
Through play the children are developing confidence and peer play competence as they problem solve. There is only one shopping cart and we all want it. Or, I want to play with you and build a kitchen, but the second child wants to build a new house. Conflict comes up in life throughout childhood and adulthood and learning the skills to resolve conflict and move forward is a skill that will help children through homework, peer disagreements, careers and even family time. The competence they develop in peer relationships is known to support their motivation to learn, task persistence, autonomy and prosocial behavior.
Children’s ability to link memory to new involvements is another area that is blossoming in the Yellow Room. The children have been enjoying books, especially Cook-a-Doodle Doo and It’s Not a Stick. Over the last several weeks the children’s development of making connections has been blooming as they notice connections between things they have done in class in the past and new things they are doing or reading about. While writing the foods that his friends like for breakfast, Naveed noticed that Ronan likes cookies. He called Morah Devora over and stated “Morah, 'cookie' is like the Cook-a-Doodle Doo book. They both have 'cook' in them." Leanna was also making connections as she read the It’s Not a Stick book and stated, “Look Morah, it’s the Starry Night painting in this book just like we painted.” As children’s abilities to make connections between concepts develop, they increase their ability to think about the many things they are learning in a more complex way.
Relating Math and Literacy to the Parsha
The children have a new friend joining the Yellow Room in January and they were curious about her, so they made predictions of who they thought might be in her family. They decided she has a mom, a dad, a sister, a brother, and herself (5 in her family). The children also decided to write and send a note to our new friend, Shyli, to ask her how many people are in her family. They also asked what she likes for breakfast (as we are started to graph foods we eat and explore food choices).
The graph provides for more math and literacy learning as it allows the children to learn to read a graph and determine who has the “most” in their family, who has the “least”, and who has five, or nine in their family. Ask your child about who they feel is part of your family, and enjoy their thoughts and reasoning.
The children’s exploration of how they are the same or different from their friends provided these ideas:
Same
Mae: We’re all human.
Leanna: We all have hearts, hair. And we all go to school.
Angie: We all have brains to think, bones, and lips. We all learn Torah, and have blood. We all like to draw.
Jacob: We can all be patient. We all bench. We all learn aleph bais.
Naveed: We all have eyes and noses.
Leah: We all have ears.
The children are still considering the things that are different about each of them. Mae stated we are different because we have different feelings. Exploring difference provides children a respect for themselves and others as they realize they do not have to be exactly like their friends.
Over winter break please have your children join you in an exploration of items and people in the environment that are different.
Enjoy your winter break.
Have a wonderful, restful Shabbos!
Morah Devora